A wedding in UP got called off because of 2 Rasgullas. Yes, you read that right, 2 Rasgullas!

As diverse as the country itself, India’s wedding traditions are a talk of legend. We have heard of 400 Crore weddings, Bride and Grooms entry involving spaceships, we have also heard of a wedding getting called off because of the choice of biryani! But, what happened earlier this week tops the list!

It happened in Kurmapur village in Unnao district, about 70 km from Lucknow. The marriage of Shiv Kumar (25), a resident of Khutaha village in Unnao, was arranged by his father one Satyanarayan with Kamini (name changed) from the nearby Kurmapur village.

The baraatis reached the village, with the groom,  to solemnize the marriage on April 14. Inebriated

Rasgulla Wedding by The Wedding Planners Diary

Drunk baraatis gyrated on loud music when they reached the venue. They were welcomed by the bride’s father and relatives, with a sprinkle of rose petals. Cold drinks and steamed hot coffee were served with snacks.

Since the baraat had reached a little late, the groom’s father requested for dinner as soon as the dwaarchaar (ceremony at bride’s door) begin. Baraatis were requested to have dinner the moment the ceremony began.

A lavish buffet spread was laid out in a seperate pandal for the baraatis to enjoy.

Wedding Buffet

Suddenly, a heated argument ensued between the dumb shit cousin of the bride and an idiotic cousin of the groom.Lol, this is where it begins.

The groom’s cousin, Manoj, served himself two rasgullas, much to the annoyance of a close relative of the bride, who was managing the sweet stall. He was instructed to serve only one rasgulla to each baraati. The infuriated relative objected to Manoj taking two rasgullas.

Arguments turned into a scuffle and soon more baraati’s joined Manoj and beat up the bride’s relative. The venue soon turned into a free for all.

Punches and blows were being exchanged like they are in a bar fight. Both sides grabbed whatever they could get their hand’s on and started hurling it at each other.The food pandal came crashing down in no time.

The bide and the groom’s father, who were performing the dwaarchaar ceremony, ran towards the war zone to understand what led to the sudden free-for-all. They tried to pacify but none of the sides backed down.An angry idiotic Manoj, along with other baraatis, abused and thrashed up the bride’s father and other close relatives. It got to a point where someone was about to pull a gun, but to everyone’s surprise, better sense prevailed.

An angry idiotic Manoj, along with other baraatis, abused and thrashed up the bride’s father and other close relatives. It got to a point where someone was about to pull a gun, but to everyone’s surprise, better sense prevailed.

The police, somehow, counseled both sides and restored peace. Village elders and the panchayat were called to sort out the issue and allow the marriage ceremony to be solemnized in their presence. The bride, who was seeing the whole drama from the rooftop refused to marry, I wonder why.

Both sides repented the incident over an extra rasgulla and pleaded the girl to complete the marriage ceremony. But she did not budge even on repeated requests from her parents. Finally, the marriage was called off. Gravies on their faces and dresses, baraatis and groom returned to their village without the bride.

I can not even understand how many different types of dumb and disgusting one has to be to be able to behave like this, period. It does not matter whether it is a wedding or at home, how fucking stupid can you be ?

Get Knotty this Gudi Padwa!

Gudi Padwa is the Indian festival that marks the beginning of the New Year and the harvest season for the people of Maharashtra, it is also celebrated as Ugadi or Telugu New Year or Kannada New Year.

A date as Auspicious as can be for any new chapter in one’s life, we tell you why you might see a lot of people tying the knot tomorrow!

1. Gudi Padwa this year is a Saade Teen Mahurat date.

That means there is no need to look for an auspicious time or a shubh mahurat, you have the liberty to plan your wedding at will, at any time and everyone will go along 🙂

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

2.Gudi Padwa is said to be symbol which represents the love between a husband and wife.

What better way to start that journey than getting married on that date 🙂

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

3.Food, Food and More Food!

It means you can serve special treats like Shrikhand Puri, Puran Poli, Sanna to an already existent spread to add that unconventional touch as these goodies are a special treat prepared to mark the occasion of Gudi Padwa 🙂

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

4.Gudi Padwa marks the beginning of the New Year.

Double the celebration, double the fun!

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

 

5. It is not a Dry Day!

Unlike popular belief, Gudi Padwa is not a dry day. So keep calm, get married and have a Patiala Peg or two, actually three…I have lost count….get the hint 😉

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

Why you should get married on Gudi Padwa by The Wedding Planners Diary

 

So all you lovely people, hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it.

On behalf of us all here at TWPD, I wish all of you lovvvvvely people a happy Gudi Padwa, Ugadi, Yugadi, Sajibu Nongma Panba Cheiraoba and Navreh!

10 Fun Foods to add a healthy twist to your Wedding Menu!

Weddings are a union of two people and their families and food is a vital part. So much so, that guests look forward to what is on the menu.

With the advent of social media, guests today are extremely well-informed and health conscious and are more receptive towards a healthy and fun twist to the wedding menu, besides the conventional hearty soul food usually served at Indian Weddings.

Here are our Favourites:

1: Baked Pani Puri Shots to bring the zing!

Baked Pani Puri Shots

2: Gluten Free Mini Pizzas that melt in your mouth.

gluten free pizzas

Image Credit: Pinterest

3. Tender Chicken Satay with Peanut Sauce

chicken satay with peanut sauce

Image Credit: Google

4.Grilled Fish with Chilly Rosemary Lime Butter

grilled fish with chilly rosemary lime butter

Image Credit: http://www.chillipeppermadness.com

5.Fresh and Hot Palak Tofu

Delicious Palak Tofu

Image Credit: pickyeaterblog.com

6.Soft Baked Stuffed Kulchas

Hot Stuffed Veggie Kulchas

Image Credit: scdn.archanaskitchen.com

7.Chickpea and Vegetable Curry with Quinoa

yummy chickpea and vegetable curry with quinoa

Image Credit: http://www.staticflickr.com

8.Lo Syn Thai Prawn Curry with Rice

Low Fat Prawn Thai Curry

Image Credit: http://www.slimmingeats.com

9. Zesty Lemon Tofu Cheesecake

Tasty Lemon Tofu Cheesecake

Image Credit: ichef.bbci.co.uk

10. Baked Gulab Jamun

Hot and Sweet Baked Gulab Jamun

Image Credit: foodgawker.com

Weddings are special, the food makes them even more special 🙂 Adding a healthy and tasty twist to your wedding menu can appeal to all guests alike and make it even more memorable! 🙂

About the Author: Barkha Athania is a vastly experienced and high profile wedding planner based in Mumbai. Her creations and designs are inspired by a variety of diverse cultures, enabling her to provide her clients with an array of options

The Blushing Airbrushing Bride

The Blushing, Airbrushing Bride

“Treat your makeup like jewelry for the face. Play with colors, shapes, structure – it can transform you.” – Francois Nars

A brush of magic, and you’ve transformed into that Disney princess you’ve always dreamed of. That’s the brilliance of makeup. Every girl deserves to feel like a princess on their wedding day, and we’re going to show you how. Some of the makeup fads trending this 2014 will leave your mouth watering for more!

Lipstick games
As far as lip trends go this year, nudes, blushing pinks, and delicious berries are the way to go. Teasing and coy, these not-so, yet invisible shades will transform our beloved brides into irresistible coquettes.

PS: For all you bold and boisterous brides out there, another color to watch out for is the exuberant orange (it’s the new red!)

Eye spy

‘Cat eyes’ are a simple, yet transformative trend that has been around for a while now. This feline fad will not only give that scandalously shocking effect to the demure bride, but it will also help accentuate those undiscovered cheekbones. So bust out your liquid liner and start practicing for that perfectly clean line!

Of braids and brides

This wedding season, do away with open-haired styles and boring buns. Bashful braids have suddenly gone bold and are no longer reserved for the girl next door. New-age brides are slowly realizing that braids can look totally chic and glamorous. They look absolutely fabulous on any jaw line or outfit, can be worn in a million different ways, and can be adorned with pretty accessories, such as flowers, barrettes and so forth. So be they regular, French or fishtail braids, these artistic tangled webs are out to make a statement.

The wedding brow

Thin, flimsy and machine-made eyebrows are so passé. The age of big and bold brows is back. Natural-looking eyebrows add a softness to the face, which is a secret that has recently been rediscovered. They symbolize how our generation is tracing its way back to long-forgotten trends. So for all those brides with not very well-endowed brows, make optimum use of the brow pencil to get perfectly groomed eyebrows and instantly revamp your look.

Revamp

While it’s tradition in some cultures to go bold with bridal makeup to match the usually vibrant bridal attire, it’s also important for you to not look like a vamp on your wedding day. So it’s important to strike a contrast between the lip and eye shade you’re going to wear. If you want that smokey or beautiful cat-eyed look for your eyes, make sure you wear a nude lip color and not a hot pink to accompany it. Similarly, play down your eyes if you plan on shocking your lips with a vibrant red or orange.

So on this very voguish note and in the spirit of all things festive, keep the planning going for your D-Day, and watch this space for more insightful and life-changing updates. Good luck!